The planning aftermath

Three weeks of anniversary planning notes scattered across my coffee table, and I’m finally seeing the real story they tell.

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Budget intervention required

Michelle showed up with coffee and good intentions to help me figure out where all my money went this month. Turns out having a personal trainer friend who’s...

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Chord progressions and ego checks

Jake came home from work to find me surrounded by chord charts and what can only be described as the musical equivalent of a crime scene.

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Three years in a drawer

Found my marathon medal this morning while digging through the junk drawer for batteries. Still in the plastic bag from 2015, still tangled with the safety p...

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Champagne on a Tuesday

Sarah texted me at 5:30 asking if I was free tonight because she had news. Big news. The kind that apparently requires champagne on a weeknight.

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What planning teaches you

Finally closed my notebook after three weeks of anniversary planning, and honestly? The whole process taught me more about Jake and me than I expected.

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Three hours for three ingredients

Alex showed up at 2pm with a notebook and the most serious expression I’ve ever seen him wear for anything non-work related. “I want to learn this properly,”...

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Emergency chocolate protocol

Carmen has this sixth sense about when I’m having a weird night. I was sitting on the living room floor at 9pm, surrounded by Jake’s entire wardrobe folded i...

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Post-game analysis

Alex showed up at my door tonight with a large pepperoni pizza and a very serious need to discuss our third-place finish at trivia night. Apparently, we lost...

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